AllWomen Pyajama Party: A movement to establish safer, more inclusive spaces

The AllWomen Pyajama Party, now in its third edition, is a pioneering event that marks a significant shift in the traditional nightlife experience tailored specifically for women.

The nightlife scene in most cities is often a mixed bag of experiences, particularly for women. With the omnipresent issue of safety, traditional after-dark venues often leave much to be desired for women seeking both fun and freedom. Addressing these concerns, Drishti Mendiratta, organiser of the event, has harboured a concept of redefining revelry.

At the heart of Drishti’s vision was the creation of a safe space. She imagined a place where women could let their guard down, where the drink in their hand was enjoyed without pause, and their laughter could fill the air, free from unwanted attention. “We wanted to craft an event where the only expectation is to relax and be oneself,” Drishti shares. The AllWomen Pyajama Party is built on this foundation of safety and comfort, removing the elements that often deter women from fully indulging in public leisure activities.

The event is not only about socialising but also serves as a showcase for women artistes and business owners. Drishti was adamant about using the Pyajama Party as a platform for female creativity and entrepreneurial spirit. As a headliner, Mary Ann Alexander would be tasked with drawing a consequential group and ensuring that the energy and entertainment levels remain high throughout. She says, “I have never played to an all women audience, but generally when I prepare for my sets, I think of music that can make the women happy. Because if the girls are happy, the vibes are immaculate.”

The connection and expression facilitated by the event’s activities are quite thoughtful. Drishti incorporates unique features such as ‘rant’ sessions and karaoke, which are more than just fun; they are therapeutic. These sessions offer a cathartic release and a chance for women to lift each other up through shared experiences and collective joy.

“We have rant sessions where women can voice their frustrations in a supportive environment, and karaoke to celebrate their voices literally and metaphorically,” she says. It’s this blend of support and festivity that bolsters the event’s atmosphere of sisterhood.

Janani Rao, therapist and moderator of ‘rant ’ sessions, says, “AllWomen is an IP where I can shed all pretenses and be truly authentic. Here, I am free to embrace my raw emotions, messy thoughts, and complexities, all while recognising the inherent beauty in my imperfections. As the facilitator of these sessions, I witness firsthand the transformative power of this environment. It’s a place where vulnerability is not just admitted but offers every participant a chance to explore and accept their true selves in a supportive, nurturing setting.”

But the innovation doesn’t stop at creating a nurturing space for attendees. Drishti is also keen on redefining the staffing of such events. “We’ve started women up as sound engineers, photographers, and light engineers — roles usually reserved for men. It’s about showing that these skills are not gender-specific,” she adds.

Free entry. May 17, 7.30 pm onwards. At EXT by The Moonshine Project, Film Nagar.