
You know those days when even brushing your hair feels like a task too big to conquer? Or when your to-do list stares back at you like an unscalable mountain? Enter body doubling—a focus strategy that started as a tool for those with ADHD and is now becoming a surprising act of self-care for the rest of us.
At its core, body doubling means working alongside someone else—virtually or in person—not for collaboration, but for silent companionship. The idea is that simply having another person present while you work, clean, or tick off tasks creates an accountability loop that helps you focus. Think of it as the grown-up version of parallel play, but with to-do lists instead of toys. Originally recommended by therapists and coaches for those with attention disorders, body doubling has exploded in popularity thanks to platforms like Zoom, TikTok, and Discord. Gen Z in particular has embraced ‘focus rooms’ and ‘cozy livestreams’ where strangers log on and silently work side by side. It’s not just about productivity—it’s about co-regulation. When someone else is calmly working near you, your nervous system mirrors that sense of steadiness. It’s grounding, especially in times of digital overwhelm.
How you can try it
Search ‘study with me’ or ‘clean with me’ videos on YouTube. They’re oddly soothing and make you feel less alone while you do your thing.
Apps like Focusmate, Flow Club, or even Discord servers offer free or low-cost sessions where strangers log in to do silent tasks together.
Schedule a time to ‘parallel clean’ or work silently with a friend via video call. You don’t even need to talk—just hit mute and go.
In an era of burnout, body doubling feels like a gentle rebellion against hustle culture. It’s not about hyper-productivity. It’s about having someone there—quietly, steadily—as you figure out how to get through your day. And sometimes, that’s exactly what care looks like.
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