This girl is on fire: Vidisha Baliyan is headed to South Africa for Miss Deaf World
The model and athlete gets personal about his life and all the challenges that have led up to the pageant, next week
Vidisha Baliyan may need to read your lips to understand what you are saying. But this does not seem to be slowing down the 22-year-old beauty contestant from Ghaziabad.
In fact, the model who will represent India at the Miss Deaf World 2019 pageant next week, is moving upward and onward, so fast — one might need to pick up the pace to keep up with her!
The background story that led up to this big moment on a world stage, that will take place on July 12 in South Africa, is however, quite heart-wrenching. And we quickly discover over email correspondence with Vidisha who has 100 per cent hearing loss in her right ear and 90 per cent in her left — that there were many obstacles that stood in her way, owing to repeated rejection and comparison.
Before glamorous shoots could be arrived at, she would need to overcome suicidal thoughts. “When I was in the 6th, 7th and 8th standard, I was seated in a classroom, surrounded by sound and my grades were going drastically down. It left me feeling suicidal and like I was a burden to my family, as I watched my mother crying and helpless,” Vidisha remembers.
Love all, back against the wall
She would go on to find a love, a purpose that would drown out all of this negativity when she started playing tennis in 2010. This game would carry her toward what she calls her “biggest high” in 2017 — representing India in the Deaflympics. But post the competition, doctors told her to give up the game, due to a severe back injury. Vidisha tells us, “I was at my peak. I was living and breathing tennis. It felt like they took away my oxygen.”
It was in the process of coming out of this hopeless place that she heard about the Miss Deaf India pageant, which she went on to win earlier this year. “The format is quite similar to a regular beauty pageant,” Vidisha informs us. “Except, there is no bikini round and the interview round has been removed, though contestants can use sign language and there will be an interpreter to translate,” she elaborates.
Stop and listen
The inspiring youngster was later spotted by Para Olympic silver medallist and Arjuna awardee, Deepa Malik’s foundation, Wheeling Happiness, which agreed to sponsor her and even got her some one-on-one time with former Miss World Manushi Chillar!
So what does she want to change in the world, if she manages to win that crown? “I want to be a role model for the deaf community and I would love to create a foundation that offers emotional, psychological and financial support,” she says, having needed all of the above herself. But the most frustrating obstacle that she has no control over is “going through life being ignored by people, simply because it requires effort to speak to someone with a hearing loss”.
So she implores those who can hear to listen. “Don’t hesitate to repeat your question or reply to ours or add some sign language, whatever you know. Let’s play some dumb charades,” Vidisha suggests with a smile. “We need sensitivity, not sympathy,” she signs off.
Miss Deaf World 2019 will take place in South Africa on July 12.
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